National Respect Your Cat Day

March 28, 2026

Zentangle patterns: Zipper, Mekorna, Strutz, Wood Planks, Holink, and a wild assortment of Zentangle steampunk patterns and steampunk ideas.

On March 28th, we stop pretending we’re the bosses and lean into the reality of National Respect Your Cat Day. On this National Day, acknowledge the truth: Your cat is better than you. Well? Someone had to say it! And if you don’t believe it, just ask your feline friend!


Do you ‘own’ your cat? Or does your cat ‘own’ you? 

If you answered “Yes” to the first question, you may be utterly and completely confused about the subordinate role you play in the life of your resident feline.  If you said “Yes” to question #2, and have willingly resigned to to being a pushover due to unconditional love, you obviously are an experienced cat chaperone.  

If you’re contemplating becoming a first time cat owner, well, good luck and have fun! Oh, and here’s some tips not only for living happily with a cat, but perhaps there’s a few ideas for all feline chaperones on how to celebrate National Respect Your Cat Day. These pointers will hopefully help you avoid catching a good swat in the process:

  • Keep an open door policy in your home. Once you acknowledge that a closed door (even a bathroom door) is a personal insult to a cat, you will avoid an irritable feline. Just because a cat is hanging out in a room for a long period of time doesn’t mean they want to stay there. They like to travel freely when they choose to. 
  • Use a slow blink when looking at your cat. In their language, blinking slowly is the ultimate sign of respect, trust, and true friendship. If you encounter your cat while wondering through your house, stop and make intense eye contact, then offer him a slow-blink to maintain your friendship. 
  • Respect the nap-zones. Cats spend up to 15 hours a day napping. Let them sleep where they want. If they fall asleep on your laptop, you obviously don’t need to check your e-mail. Are they sleeping on your lap? Moving before their nap is over will cause you to get claws poking through your jeans, causing the most hideous scratch. A cat knows their worth. Let them nap. 
  • The petting rule. Know the difference between a “nice” pet and a “you can quit now” pet. If you want be sure your cat is up for some affection, we recommend petting the cat for about 5 seconds, then pulling your hand away. If your cat wants more, they’ll show you with a bossy nudge. If they want to be left alone, they’ll probably swat at you.
  • Say your sorry. Has your cat every fallen off of a counter? Did they look at you like you pushed them? Of course you did! Cats don’t just lose their balance. You’re the problem (even if you’re not). Just say you’re sorry so they can move on with their day. 

Who was the creator of National Respect Your Cat Day?

No one knows for sure. The most likely possibility is this day was founded by a cat who learned how to type while its human fell asleep on the keyboard. 

Afterward …..

In addition to owning our 9 year old pit/lab ‘puppy,’ Luna, Roy and I share our home with two 12 year old indoor cats, Odo and Dax, a brother and sister we adopted as kittens from a shelter in North Carolina. When we moved to New Mexico in 2017, both cats rode in the car with me. For four long days and 2000 miles across country, the three of us ‘enjoyed’ many boisterous sing-alongs and stimulating conversations! Roy’s journey was much more peaceful!

Over the last 53+ years we’ve joyfully chaperoned ten cats total. All wonderful, all different, all lovable and unforgettable! The names of those we hold in our memories were Popeye, Poopsie, Tails, Fishbait, Darwin, Grizzz, Newt (who was our sailor cat and Captain aboard the S.V. Waterdog), and T.O.O.  

Now we have Odo and Dax to carry on their legacy, and with Luna (and Flambé, of course!) we love and adore them all! 

Share you cat stories, and what you do to “Respect” your feline family! 

As always, thanks for stopping by!

Pick Me! Pick Me!

January 20, 2025

Winter can be challenging for nature journalers. Getting outside when it’s cold and windy, cloudy and dreary, snowy, icy or wet, are not ideal weather under any circumstances.  And when everything looks brown and crispy and pretty much the same, the challenge to nature journal in the great outdoors grows exponentially. While these conditions make it difficult for spontaneous observing, I try to remember there’s always something remarkable to be discovered in nature, even in winter.

 Who knew a little whack on the head would be just the thing to reawaken my curiosity?

Bundled in layers, leash in hand, Luna led me on her early morning walk around suburban Albuquerque. Having been along this route before, we’ve both made some interesting discoveries in the past.  And as usual, this time was no exception for Luna. For me though, everything appeared brown, crispy and familiar. But I was inspired by  and enjoying Luna’s sense of curiosity, and her encouraging tug on the leash. 

Nearing the end of our 2-1/2 mile walk, and mightily concerned I’d go home empty handed, we turned our last corner. It wasn’t 100 feet down the cement block-lined sidewalk that I abruptly stopped in my tracks. Something had lightly whacked me in the head! While the sound of rhythmic clacking rang out, I looked up, and to my surprise spotted the accidental assailant. Draped over the 6 foot wall, suspended from a hearty Trumpet Vine (Campsis radicans) growing in the hidden yard beyond was a string of pods resembling brown green beans. Long and plump and full of seeds, one of these pods had reached down low enough to make contact with to my head. (I say “reached” because that’s what my imagination said had happened.) Quickly awaking my sleepwalking brain, the effort made by the seed pod to get my attention paid off too. Silently whispering, “Pick me! Pick me!” it was as if the seed pod and its adjacent buddies either wanted to be harvested, or wanted to be featured in my nature journal (or both). 

So I did ………… both!

I loved learning about and sketching these fascinating Trumpet Vine seed pods, while my mind was filled with the muffled notes of a trumpet. Tooo-too-too-toooooom!

Hope you enjoyed reading this story and browsing around my journal pages.

As always, thanks for stopping by!

Zip! Zip! ….. Happy National Zipper Day, April 29th

April 29, 2024

National Zipper Day is a holiday celebrated on April 29th every year in honor of the invention of the zipper by Gideon Sundback in 1913.

Zentangle patterns used: Oeillet, Snakin’, Ocip, Idea, Spoken, Tork, Nutz, Strutz, Pipez, Stem Out, Thoofen.

While you’re having fun (or going crazy) chasing Flambé’s maze of zippers, here’s some very cool facts about the world’s largest Zipper manufacturer ….. YKK.  

The initials YKK stand for Yoshida Kōgyō Kabushiki (Kabushibibaisha), a Japanese business that owns the most popular zipper brand in the world. Because of its cutting-edge technology and reliable materials, YKK continues to dominate the fastener market worldwide.

Today, YKK produces more than 50% of zips worldwide. Zips may be easy to make; they may have not seen much innovation in the last fifty years, and they may be simple but (so far) no other zipper company can compete against the YKK monopoly. 

YKK, founded in 1934, manufactures and produces about 10 billion zippers a year. The YKK Group consists of two main operations – 1) the fastening business, and 2) the architectural products business. The fastening business, includes zippers made for the apparel industry, comprises about 40% of its global business. The architectural products business, includes products for windows, doors, curtain walls, and even bridges and ocean clean-up products for the oil and gas industry, comprises the other 60%. 

The largest zipper factory in the world! The YKK factory in Macon, Georgia has earned that label.  This mega factory boasts 14 modern plants and over 900 employees, producing 7 million zippers a day. These zips, which come in more than 427 standard colors, total over 1,500 styles including a luxury style called Excella, where all of the parts are highly polished!

What’s so special about YKK Zippers? They are amazing in their ability to self-lubricate the more you use them. Have you ever had a zipper that becomes sticky and gritty over time? If you check the brand on the pull, it will always be some lesser make of zipper. “Sticky and gritty” are nasty characteristics experienced with a YKK. As a matter of fact, the YKK brand zips up and down more smoothly the more you use them! 

After learning a bit about YKK (my curiosity at last satisfied), I immediately ran around to all of our closets checking for the brand …….. hey, they’re all YKK! Now it’s your turn …… Check your zipper pull tabs! Are they YKK? I’ll anxiously await your full report!

On and on and up and down! Because I put so much detail and time into my Steampunked Zentangle tangle, I was going to make Flambé’s post to commemorate National Zipper Day short and sweet. But because there’s so much information about Zippers, my fascination grew exponentially, much like my Zipper maze! 

Line work before color.

Hope you enjoy this abbreviated overview about Zippers! If you’re heading outdoors to ponder this fascinating technology, don’t forget to Zip Up!